Support for the person behind the gift.

The journey of a queer donor is unique and often goes unrecognised. This is a space dedicated to your experience—the questions, the emotions, and the stories. Here, you are the focus.

Donor Journeys

Spherical paper sculpture with triangular folds, resembling an egg and symbolizing egg donation for queer family creation.

The Path of Egg Donation

Navigating the physical and emotional complexities of egg donation, from hormone cycles to the profound questions about genetic connection and future relationships.

Curved paper cut on a beige background resembling a sperm shape, used to represent sperm donation and queer family building.

The Experience of Sperm Donation

Exploring the personal side of sperm donation, whether to friends or a clinic, and the unique feelings around identity, anonymity, and the meaning of family.

Folded paper design forming petal-like shapes, symbolizing surrogacy and supportive queer pathways to parenthood.

The Journey of Surrogacy

Understanding the deep commitment and intense emotional experience of carrying a pregnancy for someone else, and navigating the relationships involved with care.

Help others by sharing your journey.

Your story has the power to make someone else feel seen and understood. By sharing your experience, you help build a library of support for the entire queer donor community. Stories may be shared anonymously on this site in the future.

Share Your Story

Who's behind this?

This project was founded by Will Smith (he/him), a therapist with both a professional and personal interest in the topic of queer donation.

He started this project after noticing a clear gap in support: while recipients are often the focus, the complex emotional journeys of donors themselves are frequently overlooked.

Will is currently producing research and guidance for therapists and individuals affected by queer sperm donation, and this website is an essential part of that work. His main therapy practice, where he offers one-to-one sessions, can be found at therapyhub.eu.

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